When it comes to the Law of Attraction on love, Dr. Wayne Dyer summed it up, “The law of attraction is this: You don’t attract what you want, you attract what you are." In order to attract more love in your life, you must start by being a loving person. Love is readily available to you and every one of us. Yet, many feel a lack of it in their lives. Here you will learn how you can easily embody love to attract and experience more of it every day, no matter where you are. From your romantic relationships and friendships to a stranger on the street or the cashier at the store.
You are always attracting.
It sounds backwards, I know. If you were already full of love you probably wouldn't be here. You're here because you need the Law of Attraction to inject more love into your life, believing that it will happen through other people. It just doesn't happen that way.
So, if you want to experience more love in your life, you have to learn how to be love. Luckily, even for the most unloving of people, this is not as difficult as it may sound. Being love means that you feel love, you spread love and you receive love freely.
You don’t have to wait any longer to sense the wonders of being in a loving state day after day. After all, you are reading this which means that your heart is open. And when your heart is open, love naturally flows more freely through you.
Attracting love can begin for you right now by feeling gratitude. Being grateful is the first step in allowing love to grow within you. Gratitude is the key element in the Law of Delicate Balance (one of the seven sub-laws of LOA). In addition to the peaceful vibes, you may also experience deeper and more restful sleep. To get started, simply think of 3 things you are grateful for first thing in the morning. Say them aloud and/or write them down in your gratitude journal.
Gratitude allows the Law of Attraction to work in a beautiful way. It will bring more joy to you and everyone you come across. When you are filled with love, you have no choice but to share it. It happens automatically and with time you will notice that there is little effort that’s required on your part as gratitude becomes a habit that puts yourself into a state of love.
Once the power of gratitude grows within, the next step is to love yourself COMPLETELY. This might be the most important tool of all. You probably have things you wish were different about yourself. Life has a sneaky way of training us to put ourselves down, focus on our flaws, and live below our true calling.
You can change all that and love yourself more than you can possibly imagine by following these steps.
Loving yourself can be done in many ways, but I've found that these are the 4 most critical steps to follow in order to love yourself to the fullest.
Focus on your strengths, while also accepting your your unique flaws that make you the glorious person that you are. What you give your attention to will grow, so embrace and focus on the things that you love about yourself. This will magnify your strengths to the extent that your "flaws" melt away and the love that you feel for yourself will be immense.
Self-love means saying "Yes!" to yourself when you are honoring your needs, such as self-respect and the respect from others. It means that you put yourself first in the most beautiful way. You put your own peace and joy first because you know that when you do, you can create it in other people's lives as well.
Loving yourself means that you also say, "No." You say "No" to toxic environments and people. You don’t accept harsh treatment from others. People often stay in toxic relationships because they are afraid that it could be even worse outside of it. This kind of thinking is ruled by fear and uncertainty.
As you continue to practice the Law of Attraction for love and abundance, you will notice your thinking change to be ruled by peace, positivity and a certainty in obtaining what you most desire.
Besides harsh treatment from others, we are often our own worst critics. Which means that every negative thing you say to yourself about yourself has to go. No saying “ I’m so stupid” or “what’s wrong with me?”
Affirmations are a powerful tool to get rid of negative self-talk.
Affirmations can dispel negative thoughts like nothing else. When you start to put yourself down you can use affirmations like these to clear the clouds and live in the light:
“I love myself.”
“You are beautiful.”
“It’s okay that I made a mistake, I’ll do better next time.”
“I choose to love myself first.”
"I am love.”
“I deserve love.”
“I am worthy because I exist.”
Some of these affirmations come from amazing teachers such as Louise Hay and Marissa Peer. If you struggle with self-love, both of these women have a gentle and profound way of helping you love yourself more.
The Law of Attraction might be invisible to the eye but it is always at work. When you are using these steps to give yourself love, you are telling the Universe that this is what you are worth and what you deserve to receive more of.
“Others cannot give you what you are not willing to give to yourself, and neither can the Universe”
Now that you are fueled with gratitude and glowing with self-love, it will be difficult to resist the desire to share love. Since the Law of Attraction returns to you what you give out, sharing love is a sure way to 10x your results. It's often the little things that matter the most. You might help an old lady with her bags or smile and be kind to a stranger on the street. You might give money or time to charity, or say loving words to those who cross your path.
But sharing love with people is only the beginning. There is love you can share with nature. Touching the trees, telling the flowers in the park that they are beautiful. Saying “I love you” to the ocean. It’s okay if it feels strange at first, nobody is watching.
It doesn't have to stop there either. Something I learned while reading Marie Kondo's book, is that she thanks items in her life before letting go of them. Give it a try. There's an energy in this that is deeply rooted in the Law of Attraction to generate more love and abundance in your life.
If you're worried of what people might think seeing you thank the beautiful flowers in the park, then you can say your loving words in silence. Although, if you feel the urge to vocalize it, don't hold back, because it's all the more powerful.
It's all about giving. Receiving is the byproduct.
When you give, it feels good. It is one of the most beautiful ways of receiving love too, because you enjoy it. If you’re not there yet, working on gratitude and self-love will help you get there. Be kind and try to bring good energy to everyone you meet.
That doesn’t mean that you always feel like it or that you have to smile at everyone or engage a lot with others everyday. You’re allowed to be in your shell too sometimes and have your quiet moments. Simply be mindful of what you say and how you act towards people. As you are mindfull, follow the inner impulses to buy a homeless person breakfast or give someone a hug.
You can send others love from afar too. Think loving thoughts and what you love about the people in your life. And even those you might not like so much. See them in front of you and send them loving energy. If someone hurt you, seek understanding and send them loving energy. This will help in letting go of any negative emotions you may still feel towards them. People are going through their own pain and struggles and can’t always see how their behavior affects others. It’s not an excuse but it does breed compassion.
It’s easy sometimes to get stuck in thoughts that you are not loved. Of course, not everyone has a family or friends to turn to. Luckily, you can always create love in your life.
You always have the option to be kind to yourself and others. You can choose which videos to watch and books to read. You can choose to do your favorite hobbies that also put you in a state of love. You always have a choice and soon you will find that even if you once were lacking love, it will begin to show up in your life.
Love is always available and once you realize that, love cannot escape you.
Now go on and be love, beautiful you.
